Guys. Don't be boring

Don't be BORING! There is no greater sin when you're trying to attract a beautiful women. In fact, this is the number one cause of "nice guys". It's not that women don't like nice guys. They do but oftentimes those types have some sincerity in them but it's just that nice guys aren't exciting. They're predictable to the girl. That's why they, often times, like those with the bad boy image but are really nice guys as well. Get the point?

I don't expect you to go out and buy a leather jacket or ride a Harley Davidson motorbike or even become a karate champion. Sometimes being who you are but making yourself to be a little more cool in her eyes is the key. It works for geeks like Bill gates, sure, if you have a bank account larger than the economies of some countries. Then again, Bill gates personifies a sense of being cool in his own way because he did what nobody around the world has done. This gives him an image of iconic proportions so the competition is zero. Women do look up to him and they want to be in his inner circle.

This is something that you need to be doing as well. Make them want to be near you. Her heart is seeking adventure. she wants to be swept off her feet. Now, this doesn't mean that you have to go bull riding or bungee jumping on a first date, but it does mean you can't be predictable. You can't be bland because that path is so obvious. She'll know what you'll say and do five minutes before you do it. Guys, how long can you watch a painfully formulaic movie before getting annoyed, especially if there aren't any explosions? She needs you to stir her life up a little and let's face it almost everyone will pick exciting over pleasant any time.

Now, jerks aren't pleasant people. She won't like that. This isn't a positive, in fact, it's the reason jerks rarely find themselves in long term or stable relationships but what jerks are; is unpredictable. Women will go out with them but in the end they'll be dumped as well. The important thing is to be unpredictable but not be a jerk to her or her friends. I don't know about you, but my aim in life has never been to be an abusive asshole. Even when I was younger I recognized that guys that were pricks got more women than they should, and that I would probably increase my success by following that pattern but I couldn't bring myself to do it. Deep down, most of us are nice guys. Tell you a secret. Lots of guys that have a bad boy image, deep down inside are in fact nice guys.

They sometimes prevail this image to women so in the event that things go wrong they can walk away with their heads held high although their little hearts are broken. They don't show their vulnerability but if a woman has been with a that guy for some time she will discover the real him. She'll love him even more that she actually has the good guy that she's always wanted and didn't realize.

Another tactic is what is called the delay method. If the women wants to go and have sushi, don't take her there on that night. Wait a week or so then bring her. You gain points for listening and thoughtfulness. If she's been talking about going to a certain place, eventually bring her there but do it with an element of surprise. She'll be all the more excited to go. Guys sometimes have a tendency to slip up and do everything that she ask. Advice here is don't be giving in even if she's whining about it. There may be the exception if you also want the same thing and you think it will move you ahead in the relationship.

By the way, delay, it counts about a thousand fold when it comes to sex. Few things are sexier than a man who doesn't lose it at the sight of an exposed breast. Don't make her think that her tits were the first lumps you've ever seen apart from Playboy magazine. If you can control yourself and delay satisfaction until you're ready to give it, the anticipation becomes more powerful than act alone and making the act all the more powerful when it happens. Yes, I'm still talking about sex but I'm talking about all the rest of it too. Trust me the "delay" game works.

Bar advice. Guys should find ways to improve themselves and not appear boring. One idea is to picture a role model as a muse to the change and try to emulate him. Most importantly find out what women are looking for.

Dating from a online website

I recently went check out this online dating website. I won't mention it but I got to say it was the only one that I know that allowed gold members to message standard members and vice-verse. found that out later on though. I actually found it as part of the junk mail and spam that we all get. Anyway I went to check it out. Joined as a standard member a went to search. It wasn't all that great a site but had some nice looking members.

With all the relationship advice that I write here, never did I think that I would actually be browsing the site as much. Probably because after closing down the bar I had more time on my hands. Then, I came a cross Angela. Her picture is what really caught my eye. red dress and all. Found out that I could message her because she was a gold member, so I did. We went back and forth a bit and finally got our emails exchanged. Then started to get on MSN messenger.

The first time we were on it was a bit of a disaster. She didn't seem to like what I was saying. I was already on first before she got on so to me it seemed that she was preoccupied with doing other things rather than have a chat with me. The conversation didn't rally go all that smooth. Me trying to be cool and all. I never really had difficulties with getting to know someone when you already know them a little. Know what I mean? She seemed like a dodo bird to me on certain things but she didn't like one or two jokes I made or remarks. I had to apologize to keep her pleased. I was actually just testing waters to see what sort of chick this was. Then I find out she's a Taurian/Snake. All hell was about to break loose.

This is what I know about a Taurus/Snake.

THE SLITHERING STOIC
This is the most natural of Snakes. Snake people often display cosmic leanings and cleave to the other worldly. Taurus grounds them. This Snake will be intuitive (as usual), yet wonderfully discreet. The Taurus part of the character will lend earthiness. This wildly attractive creature causes havoc among members of the opposite(or same for that matter)sex. People cannot control their desire to be controlled by this marvelously sensual type whose alluring bedside manner is almost as dangerous in as it is out of bed. The steamy sexual reputation of this cool, yet earthy creature is legendary. When a Taurean born Snake wraps itself around a sex partner, the victim has absolutely no chance of(nor any desire for)escape.

Once I read this, my first thoughts was, how can I get those legs to wrap around me. I started to get more queries about this feline. Just by looking at her picture on the website and our messages I could get the sense that this one was the type that played it cool and waited for the proper time and approach. She was typical of a real snake that would be willing to just sit there and be admired of her beauty by all but only engage when she wanted to. When we got together on messenger again it wasn't as bad and seemed less hostile than the first encounter. I felt like Steve Irwin, the crocodile hunter, here. It ended with a stoic response to goodnight that I thought it was doomed.

At the end of the week somehow she got online really late. About 1am. We were back and forth about a lot of things. She opened up brilliantly. I never had a better conversation with her. I guess it's because snakes naturally like it better in the night. We had frank exchanges and I hoped that we both understood each other a little better. We were online for several hours. I even found out that her dad was a ex-cop. We joked about him shooting me. Probably in deep water now though.

Anyway, I tried to make her see the actual me and really tried to figure her out. I was feeding her info about the man I was and what I was all about. She did the same but in lesser info than I would like to have had. One should know that two people trying to get a relationship started takes a small step at a time but sometimes you need to be bold and move faster a little. At times this may not be the right move because a woman tends to feel a little hurried into the relationship and may just abruptly end it all then and there before it can even begin. Naturally snakes will rather have a less confrontational approach to anything. In a way it worked out. I wasn't going to tell he about the blog. In fact I didn't write anything till now because I told her I was going to do so. This sought of caught her off guard and now she might be reading this.

I think she just wants to kill me at this point for all this stuff written here but I got to do this. All the blog items I wrote may actually help her out. I sense that she's the sort that needs a little coaxing to come out. Maybe she need a little more time. Maybe she's doesn't feel as ready as she would like to be. Bottom line is we both haven't met. A one time meeting could make or breaking a relationship. I already told her if it didn't work out, hopefully we could be friends. It really will come down to what a person wants. Initially I told her that I wanted to be a bit more mysterious and take things slow but just getting to know each other online but, hey, Christmas is coming.

Here's a bit of advice to those that do online dating. The websites are there to help connect people and it's better and faster to find someone. Some are online with different intentions and false information. Others are branded the same even when they are innocent. One individual is different from another. Having previous boy or girlfriends cannot cloud your judgement of someone new. Don't make the same wrong moves that got you here in the first place. Don't judge others the same way. Trying not to look desperate and acting uninterested will get you nowhere. Opening up to the possibilities that the universe can bring you a partner in life, even after all the hurt before, is what you may find at the end of the rainbow of your dreams.

Bar advice. Take a chance. Not everything comes in the package that you wanted, desired or wished for. Sometimes it's a little old, broken, damaged, discarded or in pieces. Can you be the glue to fix it?

When the magic fades

Being in love is the super feeling that makes everything else seem trivial in this doggy dog world. If you're in love now or ever been than you know what I mean. My mom, when I was young, use to say that people in love think that they can live on love and fresh air alone. Actually I think that most people in love probably do think that way. I know I did.

The thing is, it was so true what my mom said. People at a younger age will think that way till they get older and are in the same relationship. Many will feel the effects of what the world and all it's blocks and walls can bring. Priority changes especially when you're a girl and you got parents nagging at you for not thinking about settling down. The nagging also continues about the no good bum you've been dating for all these years. Women get more of a hard time because parents feel that their prime may go quicker and they'll be "left behind" or on the "shelf" and eventually the guy she's with may end up dumping her. Can you blame your parents about the worrying or trying to give you advice?

All said and done. In the event that you do or don't get married, what will happen when the magic fades? I've seen it happen before. Once, a guy I knew, broke up with his girlfriend of over eleven years. She was thirty four when that happened. It's easier for a guy to rebound but women will have a hard time. Why they waited to get married I don't know but I think that it was better for her that they didn't. If she became a divorcee, it would have been worse for her to get another guy. Don't know if she ever did. Never saw her again.

Most of the time when the magic is fading, there seems to be a lot of pressure, arguments, abuse, temper and other stuff. Guess you can understand what I mean? It's all part of maturity and development. Where are our priorities? Are we going to do everything for the person we are with or is it just "puppy love"? Most women I know always say they hate the guys that "play games". There are some women that do that too, actually. They fake the interest just so that they need not be alone. They lead a guy on so they have someone to go out with or just to talk to. They don't want to look single in front of family and friends. In most cases there is either no sex or bad sex in this relationships.

If we can see that there is a problem arising we need to have a proper discussion with our partner. Ironing out the issues will be much better that all the shouting, yelling and phone banging that will go on for days. Is this the person you're going to marry for the rest of your life? It's better to get out of it now, even if it was ten years together, than ending up a bloody mess later. Worse, is kids are involved. With kids involved your problems will haunt you till the day you die. Even after divorce, it will haunt you till death because the kids are a part of both of you.

My advice to this is constant reaffirmations to each other. Tell the person your appreciation of being with them. Give compliments. Give in to the other. Who doesn't like to be "right" but who likes being in the dog house? If you want to make it work you got to intensify your commitment to the person that you are with more every year down the line. This includes after marriage. Don't just think that after the chase is over that all will be well. It takes a lot of effort for that magical flame not to go out. In fact it can go out faster in marriage.

Working out all the issues is far better than battling it out. One example is to stop in the middle of an argument, take a breath and change your tone. Tell the other that you both need to discuss the issue as a team. Try it, this works. Some people I've seen can go on a yelling rampage between each other in supermarkets, malls, theaters, bars and so on. You name it. It make you wonder why they are together in the first place. Will they have endless bliss? Will you?

Bar advice. The person you're with is going to be with you for a very long time. Don't you think it's best to lay solid foundations for your relationship. This is going to be your partner. What are you willing you do, starting now?

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Relationships, lies and trust

Relationships are social connections, associations and affiliations between people. They vary in levels of depth and cover different aspects such as friendship, family, lovers relationship and marriage. Regardless of the different kinds of relationship which a person plays in a social entity, conflicts may arise and can strain a relationship. Trust is an important element in maintaining a healthy and harmonious relationship. Conflicts normally arise due to the betrayal of trust. Whenever there is a conflict, parties may resort to accusations, harsh words and insults on each other which may eventually lead to emotional stress.

Trust is the pillar which supports relationships. Lies bring about distrust and suspicion in relationships. Lies should be taken seriously because for every time a lie is told, the level of trust will drop and create more and more suspicion between parties. Eventually, the person who tells the lies will lose their credibility and this will strain the relationship. My relationship advice in today’s modern society of heightened stress and competition is, lies are inevitable and serve as a convenient tool to evade trouble and protect oneself. Basically a white lie is a false escape. However, this form of convenience is exchanged with the reduction in trust. A person who has his trust misplaced before may have difficulty trusting people again. Therefore, with regards of relationship, once there is zero trust between both parties, this relationship has failed. Honesty is the best policy!

The most powerful tool is words but also the most destructive weapon in the world. Words can be in the form of praise and compliment but also a weapon that can hurt and leave an emotional scar in a person. When it comes to relationship, hurtful remarks and insults being hurled on a person in the fit of anger during conflicts can deeply affect the person’s psychological and emotional state. The impact of these words can be further intensified especially when it come out from a person who you are closely attached to.

The emotional effect may heal over time but it can also change a person’s perception of humanity and relationships permanently. Sometimes it has the power to drive people to same sex relationships because of the intense pain inflicted at an early age by someone they loved. They may have been cheated upon. Maybe made to be humiliated or there was also physical abuse.

In conclusion, trust and words are closely related to each other in a relationship. Lies don't fit anywhere. Any incorrect management of the first two important elements can strain a relationship. Anger management, character building and emotional stress management are crucial to prevent conflicts and handle any aftermath of failed relationships. Therefore, one should not take things to be granted and learn to cherish relationships.

Bar advice. Connecting with each other is already hard enough. Deception and the lack of trust will bring the relationship to it's knees.

How sexy do you want to be?

Most women look at the magazines on the shelves at stores and supermarkets, or at least the covers, and wish that they looked like those girls. Some actually believe that is what all the sexy women look like in real life. Some are so obsessed with the methods the models or celebrities use that their health is placed in danger.

It's great to be hot and have a lot of guys come after you and such but if you're obtaining that physic by unhealthy methods that can harm you or even cause death, than you're going down a dark and deadly path. We've all heard about how models starve themselves, have bulimia or are anorexic. These stories are just that, stories. People tell themselves that everything will be fine but it only sinks in when a friend or relative dies from it. A lot of women live lives that are a far cry from being thin and are very successful, have lots of men and live a healthy lifestyle. Take Tyra Banks for example. She used to be on all the covers and runways for the world, still does sometimes, but she never did all the crazy stuff to hurt herself to become thin. Maybe for some people it's a bit more natural being thin but others have a hard time.


Sexiness can also be the brightness of a girls smile. Her pouting lips like Angelina Jolie. Maybe even curves like Queen Latiffa. Women can enhance their looks with the right makeup on. Trust me I've seen some girls plaster on a ton of make up that they look worse than the clown, Ronald McDonald. You wouldn't want to see them in a dark alleyway at night. You'll mistake them for a ghost.

Lingerie is also something that can bring out that sexy, naughty vibe in you. Women think it's all superficial. They fail to realize that men can sniff out the confidence of a sexy chick. It's built in nature for them. Just remember that many women around the world all look different. Many have the whole sexy, beauty, stylish package. Others just have to deal with the "Ugly Betty" package that they got when God was handing out looks. Remember, the show "Ugly Betty" is all about this superficial world and what it takes to overcome those obstacles.

Last but not least. Wake up from the dream state you're in if you are thinking that you're going to change over night. Your face and body is who you are. Say cheers to all the beautiful women out there but say a cheer for yourself even if you don't make the "cut". I notice that women tend to check out other women. Not sexually, well some do, but just to see if they measure up to them or the other way around. A woman will not feel threaten if she's in the company of another that isn't giving out the overly sexy and hot vibe that will make her seem insignificant.

Women are always competing with others to be beautiful, to be hot looking, sexy and more but let me go back to emphasise that the key to all of this is the "confidence" you personify that will make you sparkle better than a diamond. Those that are blessed with their looks and bodies sometimes find it a curse that they have to keep up the image or be criticized. This can bring depression and self destruction to some. Look at people like Merilyn Monroe, Karen Carpenter or worst of all Anna Nicole Smith. Dead and gone. Is that going to be you too?

Bar Advice. Keeping a healthy life style, exercise and a attitude with confidence will make you feel so much better that you won't be bothered with the whole image business.

Zodiac compatibilities

Here is the zodiac compatibilities for your interest. Don't think that other combinations cannot work. This is just a guide. The world is full of possibilities. Sometimes we just have to work around them.

Aries (March 21-April 19)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Leo, Capricorn, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces
Fair - Cancer, Libra, Sagittarius

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Leo, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Taurus, Cancer

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Virgo, Scorpio, Aquarius
Good - Leo, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Taurus, Cancer, Libra, Sagittarius

Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Taurus, Cancer, Virgo
Good - Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius
Fair - Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius, Pisces

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Capricorn
Good - Taurus, Cancer, Libra, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Leo, Scorpio, Pisces

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Libra, Capricorn
Good - Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Aquarius, Pisces
Fair - Aries, Scorpio


Gemini (May 21-June 21)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Cancer, Leo, Libra, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Scorpio, Pisces
Fair - Virgo, Sagittarius, Capricorn

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Pisces
Good - Aries, Gemini, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn
Fair - Cancer, Sagittarius, Aquarius

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio
Good - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Pisces

Cancer (June 22-July 22)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Taurus, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Pisces
Good - Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Leo, Libra

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces
Good - Taurus, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Gemini

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
Good - Leo, Libra, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Virgo, Sagittarius, Capricorn

Leo (July 23-Aug 22)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Gemini, Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Aries, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn
Fair - Taurus, Cancer, Aquarius

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Aquarius, Pisces
Good - Cancer, Scorpio, Sagittarius
Fair - Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Cancer, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Good - Taurus, Leo, Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Libra, Scorpio


Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Sagittarius
Good - Taurus, Leo, Aquarius
Fair - Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Cancer, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Leo, Libra

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Pisces
Good - Aries, Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn
Fair - Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius

Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Taurus, Leo, Scorpio
Good - Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Cancer, Virgo

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Scorpio
Good - Aries, Taurus, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn
Fair - Virgo, Aquarius, Pisces

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Good - Gemini, Libra, Scorpio
Fair - Aries, Leo, Capricorn, Pisces

Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov 21)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Gemini, Leo, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn
Fair - Taurus, Virgo, Aquarius

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio
Good - Aries, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Pisces
Fair - Taurus, Capricorn, Aquarius

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn
Good - Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Aquarius, Pisces
Fair - Taurus, Leo


Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec 21)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Pisces
Good - Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Gemini

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Taurus, Libra, Capricorn
Good - Aries, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Sagittarius
Fair - Gemini, Aquarius, Pisces

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Libra, Aquarius, Pisces
Good - Gemini, Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius
Fair - Aries, Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn

Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan 19)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Gemini

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Gemini, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Leo, Scorpio

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Leo, Scorpio
Good - Aries, Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Cancer, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius

Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb. 18)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Cancer, Capricorn
Good - Gemini, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Fair - Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Pisces

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Cancer, Leo, Capricorn, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Taurus, Virgo, Pisces
Fair - Gemini, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Scorpio, Pisces
Good - Cancer, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Fair - Virgo, Capricorn

Pisces (Feb 19-March 20)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Gemini, Cancer, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn
Fair - Taurus, Virgo, Aquarius

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn
Good - Cancer, Aquarius, Pisces
Fair - Taurus, Libra, Sagittarius

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces
Good - Cancer, Leo, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Fair - Gemini, Libra


Bar advice. Nothing is set in stone. Sometimes opposites do attract. It all depends on the individual so don't always look to the stars for answers. Sometimes what's in the heart that really matters.

Rascal Flatts-What Hurts The Most

This is a great band and more importantly this song just blew a lot of people. This mini video just shows young love, relationships and parents. What hurts the most is when we miss the ones we love or the ones that hurt us.

Bar advice. The advice I give to anyone that's been in love and lost someone is to celebrate that persons life by living better.