Zodiac compatibilities

Here is the zodiac compatibilities for your interest. Don't think that other combinations cannot work. This is just a guide. The world is full of possibilities. Sometimes we just have to work around them.

Aries (March 21-April 19)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Leo, Capricorn, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces
Fair - Cancer, Libra, Sagittarius

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Leo, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Taurus, Cancer

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Virgo, Scorpio, Aquarius
Good - Leo, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Taurus, Cancer, Libra, Sagittarius

Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Taurus, Cancer, Virgo
Good - Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius
Fair - Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius, Pisces

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Capricorn
Good - Taurus, Cancer, Libra, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Leo, Scorpio, Pisces

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Libra, Capricorn
Good - Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Aquarius, Pisces
Fair - Aries, Scorpio


Gemini (May 21-June 21)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Cancer, Leo, Libra, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Scorpio, Pisces
Fair - Virgo, Sagittarius, Capricorn

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Pisces
Good - Aries, Gemini, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn
Fair - Cancer, Sagittarius, Aquarius

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio
Good - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Pisces

Cancer (June 22-July 22)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Taurus, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Pisces
Good - Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Leo, Libra

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces
Good - Taurus, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Gemini

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces
Good - Leo, Libra, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Virgo, Sagittarius, Capricorn

Leo (July 23-Aug 22)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Gemini, Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Aries, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn
Fair - Taurus, Cancer, Aquarius

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Aquarius, Pisces
Good - Cancer, Scorpio, Sagittarius
Fair - Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Cancer, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Good - Taurus, Leo, Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Libra, Scorpio


Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Sagittarius
Good - Taurus, Leo, Aquarius
Fair - Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Cancer, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Leo, Libra

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Pisces
Good - Aries, Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn
Fair - Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius

Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 23)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Taurus, Leo, Scorpio
Good - Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Cancer, Virgo

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Scorpio
Good - Aries, Taurus, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn
Fair - Virgo, Aquarius, Pisces

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Good - Gemini, Libra, Scorpio
Fair - Aries, Leo, Capricorn, Pisces

Scorpio (Oct. 24-Nov 21)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Gemini, Leo, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn
Fair - Taurus, Virgo, Aquarius

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio
Good - Aries, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Pisces
Fair - Taurus, Capricorn, Aquarius

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Libra, Sagittarius, Capricorn
Good - Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Aquarius, Pisces
Fair - Taurus, Leo


Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec 21)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Pisces
Good - Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Aquarius
Fair - Aries, Gemini

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Taurus, Libra, Capricorn
Good - Aries, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Sagittarius
Fair - Gemini, Aquarius, Pisces

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Libra, Aquarius, Pisces
Good - Gemini, Leo, Scorpio, Sagittarius
Fair - Aries, Cancer, Virgo, Capricorn

Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan 19)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius
Fair - Gemini

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Gemini, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Leo, Scorpio

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Taurus, Gemini, Leo, Scorpio
Good - Aries, Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces
Fair - Cancer, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius

Aquarius (Jan 20-Feb. 18)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Cancer, Capricorn
Good - Gemini, Virgo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Fair - Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Pisces

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Cancer, Leo, Capricorn, Aquarius
Good - Aries, Taurus, Virgo, Pisces
Fair - Gemini, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Scorpio, Pisces
Good - Cancer, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Fair - Virgo, Capricorn

Pisces (Feb 19-March 20)
Compatibility with Spouse/Love Interest
Excellent - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Pisces
Good - Gemini, Cancer, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn
Fair - Taurus, Virgo, Aquarius

Compatibility with Family/Friends
Excellent - Aries, Gemini, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn
Good - Cancer, Aquarius, Pisces
Fair - Taurus, Libra, Sagittarius

Compatibility with Co-workers
Excellent - Aries, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces
Good - Cancer, Leo, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Fair - Gemini, Libra


Bar advice. Nothing is set in stone. Sometimes opposites do attract. It all depends on the individual so don't always look to the stars for answers. Sometimes what's in the heart that really matters.

Meeting new people

This one is a little short as I'm running out of time at the moment. Last weekend it was raining a little. Business was alright for a while. Nice people were coming by the bar. Things were going well.

Later in the night two girls and a gentleman arrived and got a table. Got their orders and later was doing other stuff. I kept looking at this girl Grace, I got her name later that night, because she sat facing me. I recognized her from the last time she came. The guy as well actually. The other girl was there the first time.

Suddenly it begin to rain down hard. Others that were outside came inside as well. it was alright for a while but it begin to rain even harder. I got out a squeegee to push water that was coming in and flooding the floor a little. Just then Grace begin to talk to me. What else to start a conversation but to talk about the weather. I thought to myself,"smart girl". I kept going back and forth a little doing things to secure the place from the rains and dropped a sentence or two every time I passed the table.

I knew that I was running out of things to do near them so I gave it one last suggestion to her. I told her that if the water was a problem that they should come to the bar counter where it was dry. I, of course being behind the bar, wanted her to come over. She stayed there with them for a while but eventually she got up and did move to the bar counter with them. Immediately she engaged into conversation with me. It didn't matter that the two others were there. She seems to be this little ball of fire that was really so sweet looking. Hot as well and intelligent.

Later we got into this guessing game about where they were from and I guessed correct that she and the other girl were from the Philippines and the guy was from France. The guessing about age sort of shot me down when I guessed her older than she actually was. We did the whole zodiac sign thing. I really just wanted to dig a little more about her character. Several occasions she mentioned that they were all just friends. In conversation, several times, she reached out to touch me on the arm that was leaning on the counter but than again she held hands with the french guy as well.

I was wondering what was going on. Are they together? Anyway, she happen to fall between two zodiac signs. Ones that I like and am at the same time. We talked about relationships and such because she was stunned that I wasn't married or had ever been. I finally told her about this blog as well and the moment she asked for the url, I also managed to get her email address. Luck I guess.

This exotic creature is so bubbly. Fun and alive and seems so happy unfortunately it looks like she may leave her sales job here to join Emirates airlines later. Can't blame her for thinking about her future. Hope she does well.

Bar advice. Some women know when someone likes them and some know what they want. She said she'll read the blog so Grace of you're reading. Cheers!

Being unsure

Recently I had this girl, Mindy(not real name), come to the bar. She works nearby in a restaurant at the same area. She's been to the bar several times already. Firstly coming with a colleague but now with a new boyfriend.

As we got to talking about different things, she looked troubled so I queried her as to what was wrong. It turned out to be a little bit of a relationship issue. It wasn't so much of things going bad but she added that it was partly due to her own character flaws that added fuel to the fire. I recently checked her Pig/Capricorn zodiac signs and found this about her.

This mix creates a being of infinite talent and aspirations to match. The sky is the limit. Capricorn/Pigs never see themselves as less than monstrously famous and hugely wealthy. These folks are grandeur specialists, whose personal goals of cosmic proportions don't stand in the way of their equally epic egos. There is, in the Capricorn/Pig makeup, a certain refreshing purity of desire. No Capricorn/Pig ever underestimates him or herself. Some claim that such a clearheaded attitude toward blatant self-seeking ambition is healthy. This person undertakes vast artistic projects and gives generously to cultural institutions. The Capricorn/Pig is a faithful and passionate lover. But he or she is also a smothering one. Possessive is a mild word to describe how they cling to the object of their desire. Scenes. Rows. Rages. Fits. They don't get angry often, but when they do, run for your life.

Looking at this tells me that it may be a problem of wanting to be with the person so much and clinging on that the partner feels there's no room to breath. What's the normal reaction of someone drowning and trying to get to the surface for air? After the feeling of relief from the fresh air, they want to get the hell out of the water as quick as possible. The trouble free feeling sets in and they're glad that it's all over. The fact that she may from time to time have a row or be angry with the other and often in public, can be a real put off for anyone.

As the conversation deepen we went into the topic about her sex life, which she initially did not want to comment, and asked if they were doing anything. She laughed and told me no. Just some kissing, touching and petting. She did not want to awnser me when I asked if she was still a virgin. Telling me that it was personal. That may be true but I found that she seemed very naive and at times could be gullible to things that people tell her or to things that she doesn't know about. When I first met her she was wearing braces and at the age of twenty five seem to make her look like a kid. Now with this new guy, the braces are off and she's doing herself up more that shows her feminine side even more.

I look at it as a girl evolving into a woman. Not quite there yet. She is petite but pretty. Looking for love. Wanting to have carear, a man, parents approval, good friends, money, security, joy, fulfillment and so on. Basically he world. Who doesn't? The thing is we must not be naive to the world around us or be gullible when people tell us things because we are not exposed enough. Nobody wants to be alone. If you're willing to settle for less than what you deserve then accept all the flaws that you have and the person you're with. If you want more of everything then be willing to accept that your partner is not perfect. You can't always get what you want and the world doesn't work the way that we all want. In short, we're only human.

I hope that she comes around to see me again. I really do like her. I want to help her and in fact told her to read this blog to get some insights about relationships or source out the info elsewhere. I look at this young, petite, pretty and sweet girl and think that any guy would be lucky to have her, yet, she may end up being her worse enemy by not being able to change and adapt herself to others, surroundings, and her relationships.

Bar advice. Some people need others to tell them things about themselves that they don't see about themselves. Seeing you own shortcomings or discussing them can be intimidating but being open to help from friends improves things.

Waxing for ladies.

Saturday came and Kat(meow) did show up. She got there a little late but said that there were no dance classes that weekend. When I asked why than she was there, she said that she went a few streets down to get a waxing done. My radar went on high alert especially seeing her hot ass in shorts as well.

I know it sounds like very male, whatever you want to call it, but "hey" I'm human too. Don't forget she's reading this as well. She already commented on this blog. We did also speak about what I wrote about her Chinese and English zodiac signs. It seems that she got some friends to read it as well and they agree that it's her alright. Anyway back to the latest stuff. Just before that, I pricked her with my finger and blew the top just to indicate that her ass was hot. She laughed her in cute way.

I wanted to know if she got a bikini or Brazilian wax job and she told me the latter. I said I could do it for free next time. More cute laughing again. I was flirting. What's a guy to do when a girl tells him something like that. I was imagining myself with running hot water, foam, a shaver and her naked body. I know it's not waxing. I wouldn't know how really and it sounds painful. Right? I rather have her screams and moans be pleasurable than tearing the hair from her vagina area. Hell, I'll even throw in a massage. Now that; I'm good at. Any lady takers? Guaranteed, no strings.

There's one really nice thing about this girl. She is fairly extrovert and open minded. Some may say it's a character flaw but it sure beats the deceptive people out there. Truth and honesty in a person is a good thing. We just really started talking to each other on a different level and it becomes really interesting conversation. It also feels comfortable to both. People that can converse on all subjects, not hold back and enjoy the discussion, often want to it more as well. I believe that's why she's even talking to me.

When she first came to the bar alone, she didn't talk. I talked to her first and ever since then, she talks to me every time after. To me it's due to the fact that when I speak, all words, pronunciation, vocabulary and subjects, is something that she hasn't found in other local people. She has told me that a lot of the people that she goes out with are expats that live here. My guess is that she is seeking for similar intellectual people to have a good time with.

How many times in this blog have I stressed the importance of conversation. It is key at all levels of a relationship. We are just becoming friends and I hope she drops by every Saturday. We joked about me becoming her 'shrink'. She'll see me once a week and the payment, well, I'll have to think something up. Anyway, the waxing that was done must have hurt so I'll go find out about the procedures and get more info about it and hope that if I can solve the pain issue I may get the chance to try it out with her. (Blog flirting here when she reads)

Bar advice. For the guys out there who are going to use this tactic on girls, just remember to tell her that you'll make sure it's smooth enough by testing it with your tongue.

Dirty Dancing

I just met this girl from a salsa bar that came by to my place. Kat's here name. I'm nicknaming her "meow". She is a sweet looking kitten. A little petite and in great shape. That's because she's taking up dancing lessons. Salsa.

Hot and steamy, dirty dancing, hips gyrating, pelvis shaking and kick ass moving. What more can I say. Well, when I met her the second time she was in this really tight outfit that contoured her body. Drool guys. Anyway, the third time, she was at the bar to meet a friend but she arrived first so it gave me an opportunity to talk to her. During the conversation I mentioned to her about the whole 'hot ass' that I was checking out and we had a nice laugh about it. She even said that she was glad that she still has admirers out there. A bit of reverse flirting from her but why wouldn't there be. Dancers are always in good shape. Where has anyone come across a dancer that was out of shape? It's just as good as doing exercises. A great cardiovascular workout.

Later we started talking about zodiac signs. We spoke a little about it on our second meet and we got into talking about the characteristics and compatibility of others. She said that her sign is Aries and a Dragon. I have emailed her all about the Dragon but I left out the Aries part so I decided to write it here.

Aries
When they are in top form (which is often) Aries are: valorous, dexterous, affable, gifted, enterprising,well-meaning, quick-witted , lusty, daring, persuasive, competent, honest and thrifty.

But at their worst, Aries are promiscuous, willful, excessive, gullible, sanctimonious, authoritarian, rigid, belligerent, self-indulgent, isolate , brash, tightfisted, pushy and obstinate beyond all reason.

The very essence of Aries is vigor. They are born dynamic and spend their lives demonstrating a titanic ability to accomplish both manual and creative tasks in a trice. They are single-minded, capable and charmingly, babyishly naïve.

Aries is symbolized by the Ram.Rams are ramrod strong. They are also famous for tumbling slews of Damsels in distress. So not only are they powerful, Rams are uncommonly sexual.

This Ram portrait.
Aggressive, pushy and adolescently horny - is about right on where your average Aries human is concerned. Aries people are hard driving go-getter's who invariably overdo and over achieve. Aries is the first sign of the western zodiac. Untested, unsophisticated and genuine to a fault. Aries charges through life, bumping into obstacle after obstacle then getting bravely up, only to wonder where the lumps and scrapes and bruises came from. She holds no grudges. She'd rather forget the whole ugly experience and carry on as though nothing had happened. Aries live mostly in the present, ignore disagreeable memories and do not belabor the future.

Aries are believers in life with a capital 'L'. They really trust in their heart of hearts that everything is going to work out all right. When it doesn't. They simply pretend that it did.

Aries are not even remotely brainless. But they are stubbornly naive. They protect their innocence and refuse to admit to cynicism or cunning. People born in Aries don't fare well in shady dealings or tolerate folks who have dubious motives. For most Aries, if the world were a perfect place, life would be chockablock with nice people who do nice things for each other in a very nice atmosphere. Obviously, Aries are often disappointed in others.

Aries are also forthright. They blurt out exactly what they think. They adore spontaneity, prefer not to have to plan ahead and don't mind having to react instantaneously. This absolute worship of the seat-of-the-pants method of action can cause others to misapprehend Arie's motives. Not to worry. Aries are unusually true blue. They don't like to lie (unless they're lawyers) and just about never conceal their intentions. In fact, they don't seem to have deep seeded intentions. Just facts and results.

The Aries chasm is deep. They fall and fall down some more. When they finally hit bottom, they have to creep around on their hands and knees picking up rocks and turning over pebbles looking for a shred of soulful emotion. Aries are doers and goers who get on admirably with the business of life. Aries always favor outcome over emotion. They claim to love luxury and pleasure but whenever they get some lush leisure time, they find themselves bored and hurry up to get the down time over with so they can jet back into action.

In love, Aries are devoutly committed. However, due to their obsessive naive, they are stunned when love fails. "He left with my best friend! I got home from work. No clothes! No dog! No furniture! They were all gone!" Poor Aries. She didn't hear her lover's complaints or notice his numerous flirtations or understand his emotional needs.

So if you love one of these brave, soldierly creatures, don't expect to be drowning in fountains of emotion. However, on the plus side, you won't have to put up with much depression either. Get on with enjoying how talented your Aries partner is for fixing the plumbing, decorating the family room and taking the bus. She needs to be busy. Can't sit still sometimes.

Professions? Aries can do anything that requires keeping perpetually busy. They make wonderful painters and sculptors and ceramists because they are precise and work so well with their hands. I don't see much hope for Aries psychiatrists or private detectives or police officers. Aries people should stick to hands on jobs like engineering and architecture and designing and plumbing and heating and sewing and surgery and maybe even driving the bus. Hopefully one can become a salsa teacher.

Bar advice. I know she's going to 'kill' me for writing this but when you're in this business, we give out the advice that others won't. I don't know how to dance salsa but this is the only dirty dancing I can do with an Aries/Dragon. 'Hot ass', if you're reading, see you on Saturday.