It's been 10 years since Princess Diana died. There's going to be a concert coming up on 1st July 2007. her sons, Prince William and Harry will be in attendance along with lots of guest artist and big name stars. Her death anniversary will bring back a lot of memories as well. What do you think?
On the 7th July 2007,(07/07/07) there will be the "Live Earth" concert. It is an event that will go on for a 24 hour period on several continents with over 150 stars taking part to bring more awareness about the global green message and saving the world from pollution, green house gases, global warming and so on. What do you think about this?
Bar advice. How do these affect you? I will be blogging about this further on.
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Monday, June 25, 2007
The 9 Power touches
Here is a secret for guys to learn. Exteroceptors are the skin's sensory nerves that sense touch. Women have millions of exterceptors in their skin, and most are concentrated around her lips, hands, and the erogenous zones.
By stimulating a woman's erogenous zones, you're not only telling her subconsciously that you're an incredible, experienced lover, but you awaken her sexual drive and lust. The Hands of Fire ritual is so intimate, you want to make sure that she feels completely comfortable and relaxed first.
Have her sit down on the floor or bed, cross-legged facing you. Start the session off first with voice stimulation. The voice connects all of the sessions together and makes her feel comfortable. Next, do a breathing ritual with her to make her completely relaxed, and finally get her comfortable with your touch. Now tell her you're going to show her something new, and ask her if she feels completely comfortable with you and trusts you 100%.Have her say "yes" and "yes".
Tell her, "Did you know that you have special 'hot spots' all over your body? Well I'm going to show you where they are and how to awaken them." Once again reinforce it by making her say "yes".
As you do this ritual, imagine that hot, white light and fire is burning from your fingertips, warming whatever they touch. Your fire hands will actually become warmer to the touch this way and she'll feel it. If you think this won't work then it won't. The human mind can make things feel and sense differently with the power of suggestion.
Touch her slowly, softly, and gently. Linger. Enjoy each moment for the sake of the moment. Focus on enjoying the process, not on the completion. Take your time with the lady. Have patience. Don't make it like a hooker having a quickie.
Caress #1: THE WRISTS
Tell her that her first hot spot is her wrists. Proceed to lightly caress them for they are full of exteroceptors.
Caress #2: THE INSIDES OF HER ELBOWS
The "insides" of her elbows, where you feel the soft connective tissue, is extremely sensitive to touch and a prime erogenous zone yet most men don't know about it. This is the next area to lightly caress. Pace the situation and tell her in a slow, sexy voice exactly what you are touching and why.
Caress #3: THE LOWER BACK
Reach around to her lower back. Caressing her lower back increases the amount of blood flow to the pelvis and accelerates her arousal. Again, with each of the caressing touches, tell her what you are touching and how it is another hot spot.
Caress #4: BACK OF NECK
Gently stroke the back of her neck. The back of her neck carries a lot of muscle tension that touching releases.
Caress #5: THE JAWBONE
The front of the neck and the ridge of the jawbone is an extremely sensitive part of the woman. Lightly trace along her jawbone and the front of her neck with your fingers.
Caress #6: THE EYES
Caress the area around her eyes. As you touch them, keep your eyes open and gaze steadily into hers, even if she drops her eyelids. Keep eye contact to maintain a sense of connection with her and in some cases it makes her feel a huge amount of sexual energy.
Caress #7: THE NOSE & LIPS
Lightly caress her nose with your fingertip. Gradually extend the caresses down to her lips, and then back up to her nose.
Caress #8: THE CHEEKS
Begin from beneath the eye and lightly stroke down her cheek. Gently with the palms as well.
Caress #9: THE ANKLE HOLLOW
Caress the hollows on both sides of her left or right foot, located between her Achilles tendon and the anklebone. By now moving away from her most highly erogenous areas, you heighten the sexual urgency that she has.
The 9 power touches actually touch a woman in ways that most men never bother to explore. No man will ever have taken the time to touch her like that before in her life.
You can end the day's session with more voice suggestion or a massage, but if
she wants to man-eat you alive by now, begin a hot, passionate lovemaking session. Otherwise, don't push or initiate anything more and let her sit there and burn with the new, smashing sexual feelings. She's not going to forget you anytime soon.
And you don't need to have the entire ritual perfectly memorized. Add a few hot spots or improvise as you go. It doesn't really matter what parts you're touching as long as you're touching. You may also want to keep a small note card by your side listing all the erogenous zones so that you don't forget them. Remember when she moaned at certain touches.
Self-hypnosis is an extremely quick and effective way to practice ahead of time as well. As you read the different strokes involved, imagine a scene in your head where you're performing them on a woman. Notice how your hands get hot, how she moves at your touch, how she becomes aroused and how she sighs with pleasure. Keep practicing the scene until you've experienced it so many times that it seems like second nature to you.
Bar advice. Remember, your woman must know that you believe that every part of a woman's body is sensual. Every part of a woman's body is responsive. Everything is natural and normal.
By stimulating a woman's erogenous zones, you're not only telling her subconsciously that you're an incredible, experienced lover, but you awaken her sexual drive and lust. The Hands of Fire ritual is so intimate, you want to make sure that she feels completely comfortable and relaxed first.
Have her sit down on the floor or bed, cross-legged facing you. Start the session off first with voice stimulation. The voice connects all of the sessions together and makes her feel comfortable. Next, do a breathing ritual with her to make her completely relaxed, and finally get her comfortable with your touch. Now tell her you're going to show her something new, and ask her if she feels completely comfortable with you and trusts you 100%.Have her say "yes" and "yes".
Tell her, "Did you know that you have special 'hot spots' all over your body? Well I'm going to show you where they are and how to awaken them." Once again reinforce it by making her say "yes".
As you do this ritual, imagine that hot, white light and fire is burning from your fingertips, warming whatever they touch. Your fire hands will actually become warmer to the touch this way and she'll feel it. If you think this won't work then it won't. The human mind can make things feel and sense differently with the power of suggestion.
Touch her slowly, softly, and gently. Linger. Enjoy each moment for the sake of the moment. Focus on enjoying the process, not on the completion. Take your time with the lady. Have patience. Don't make it like a hooker having a quickie.
Caress #1: THE WRISTS
Tell her that her first hot spot is her wrists. Proceed to lightly caress them for they are full of exteroceptors.
Caress #2: THE INSIDES OF HER ELBOWS
The "insides" of her elbows, where you feel the soft connective tissue, is extremely sensitive to touch and a prime erogenous zone yet most men don't know about it. This is the next area to lightly caress. Pace the situation and tell her in a slow, sexy voice exactly what you are touching and why.
Caress #3: THE LOWER BACK
Reach around to her lower back. Caressing her lower back increases the amount of blood flow to the pelvis and accelerates her arousal. Again, with each of the caressing touches, tell her what you are touching and how it is another hot spot.
Caress #4: BACK OF NECK
Gently stroke the back of her neck. The back of her neck carries a lot of muscle tension that touching releases.
Caress #5: THE JAWBONE
The front of the neck and the ridge of the jawbone is an extremely sensitive part of the woman. Lightly trace along her jawbone and the front of her neck with your fingers.
Caress #6: THE EYES
Caress the area around her eyes. As you touch them, keep your eyes open and gaze steadily into hers, even if she drops her eyelids. Keep eye contact to maintain a sense of connection with her and in some cases it makes her feel a huge amount of sexual energy.
Caress #7: THE NOSE & LIPS
Lightly caress her nose with your fingertip. Gradually extend the caresses down to her lips, and then back up to her nose.
Caress #8: THE CHEEKS
Begin from beneath the eye and lightly stroke down her cheek. Gently with the palms as well.
Caress #9: THE ANKLE HOLLOW
Caress the hollows on both sides of her left or right foot, located between her Achilles tendon and the anklebone. By now moving away from her most highly erogenous areas, you heighten the sexual urgency that she has.
The 9 power touches actually touch a woman in ways that most men never bother to explore. No man will ever have taken the time to touch her like that before in her life.
You can end the day's session with more voice suggestion or a massage, but if
she wants to man-eat you alive by now, begin a hot, passionate lovemaking session. Otherwise, don't push or initiate anything more and let her sit there and burn with the new, smashing sexual feelings. She's not going to forget you anytime soon.
And you don't need to have the entire ritual perfectly memorized. Add a few hot spots or improvise as you go. It doesn't really matter what parts you're touching as long as you're touching. You may also want to keep a small note card by your side listing all the erogenous zones so that you don't forget them. Remember when she moaned at certain touches.
Self-hypnosis is an extremely quick and effective way to practice ahead of time as well. As you read the different strokes involved, imagine a scene in your head where you're performing them on a woman. Notice how your hands get hot, how she moves at your touch, how she becomes aroused and how she sighs with pleasure. Keep practicing the scene until you've experienced it so many times that it seems like second nature to you.
Bar advice. Remember, your woman must know that you believe that every part of a woman's body is sensual. Every part of a woman's body is responsive. Everything is natural and normal.
Guide to the "Hot girl".
Here we have a twenty one year old girl giving the real truth about how some "hot girls" really are. What they think, do and say. she shows some examples and how the guys fall flat on their faces and ass over them.
Bar advice. Guys should pick up a few tips from this young lady. Ladies too.
Sunday, June 24, 2007
The Gentleman's Guide to Seduction(DVD)
Think you have to be rich or good looking to be successful with women? You don't! This program shows you in incredible detail how to succeed with any woman you desire. Forget about all those silly hypnotic gimmicks and phony pheromones you've heard about. They don't work. Confidence and honesty is all you will ever need to score with all the women you want. That's what this video is all about. Honest, straightforward, real world advice and techniques that get results!
Stop sitting all alone at night while the other guys get all the action. Now it's your turn. GUARANTEED! Here's what you'll learn.
The only opening line you'll ever need. Use it anywhere, in any situation. Find out what really turns woman on from women themselves. Instantly build your confidence with simple yet very effective exercises you can do right now. How to get her phone number. How to ask her out. Where to take her. What to talk about. How to steal that first awkward kiss. How to get into her apartment. How to get her into your apartment. How to make her want you as much as you want her and much more!
Bar advice. The Gentleman's Guide to Seduction can help some that don't know what to do and may just help those that need to get that extra help.
When I see other guys try their luck with girls.
Last week I went to a bar where my friend is the DJ. Met up with a few other guys and the owner of the place. The owner is married and he's got a really understanding wife. She likes to drink and party with the guys as well but there's no funny business from both with the people that patron the bar. Just business and working the crowds.
That's great to see something like that. Not many people will enjoy such good times with their partner. Being with your partner almost the whole day sometimes leads to quarrels and a sense of smothering. It works for some but for a lot of others, especially men, like a little breathing room. I guess it's a guy thing. I won't be getting into that for now.
That night four lovely ladies came in with a guy and sat at the back of the bar area which had more room for all of them. Later the guy left, I suppose, because I went towards that direction since the toilets were there. Coming out, I glanced in their direction and noticed attracting smiles and heard whispers among themselves. Seeing that it was just them, I got my drink and moved to their table. In seconds all of them introduced themselves and we got on really well.
After some time, my friend came over and sat next to me but he just talked about some songs that were coming up. Immediately, I introduced him to them. I know that he wasn't there for me but what he really was up to was to have a closer look at the ladies. It is a tactic whereby the woman will feel comfortable the next time they come in. With me being there it made it easy for him. Later the other guy also did the same thing. Then came the boss himself and the wife in tow. He was just amazed that I was with these four ladies and the fact that it was their first time there just blew him away.
As the night went on, I was told that one was a sister to the other. One a friend and the other was getting married in a week. It looked more like a hen night then a gathering of friends. I wasn't about to do the striptease bit. Just before I got out of there, some guys that were nearby got closer and were watching the girls. One finally approached and said something to her. I didn't hear what it was but he got a smiling response from her.
The others never came forward but I could see the main guy still watching and keeping eye contact with the girl. I did mention to the girl next to me that he was the only one that did try to do something and because I was there it may have put him off from more conversation. She also asked how was it that I dared to come up to talk to them and such while others were staying away. Deep inside me I know about such things but I just told her that she can read about it on this blog.
It's amazing to me when I see other guys try their luck with girls. There seems to still be that unsure, non confident, shy, boy like and sometimes cowardly approach to women. Yes! The fact that women today are more informed, better educate and know what they want, should not leave guys to despair that she may look at you differently or worse of all reject your approach. Being shot down by a woman is not the end of the world. One may actually like you but if you don't try, ask or approach then how will you know?
Eventually I left after getting her email address. Hopefully those other guys did catch a break after I went. I didn't stick around to find out.
Bar advice. Many methods can be used to approach girls. First dig deep inside you to see if you're ready for the next step after you got her attention. Ask yourself,"Now what?"
That's great to see something like that. Not many people will enjoy such good times with their partner. Being with your partner almost the whole day sometimes leads to quarrels and a sense of smothering. It works for some but for a lot of others, especially men, like a little breathing room. I guess it's a guy thing. I won't be getting into that for now.
That night four lovely ladies came in with a guy and sat at the back of the bar area which had more room for all of them. Later the guy left, I suppose, because I went towards that direction since the toilets were there. Coming out, I glanced in their direction and noticed attracting smiles and heard whispers among themselves. Seeing that it was just them, I got my drink and moved to their table. In seconds all of them introduced themselves and we got on really well.
After some time, my friend came over and sat next to me but he just talked about some songs that were coming up. Immediately, I introduced him to them. I know that he wasn't there for me but what he really was up to was to have a closer look at the ladies. It is a tactic whereby the woman will feel comfortable the next time they come in. With me being there it made it easy for him. Later the other guy also did the same thing. Then came the boss himself and the wife in tow. He was just amazed that I was with these four ladies and the fact that it was their first time there just blew him away.
As the night went on, I was told that one was a sister to the other. One a friend and the other was getting married in a week. It looked more like a hen night then a gathering of friends. I wasn't about to do the striptease bit. Just before I got out of there, some guys that were nearby got closer and were watching the girls. One finally approached and said something to her. I didn't hear what it was but he got a smiling response from her.
The others never came forward but I could see the main guy still watching and keeping eye contact with the girl. I did mention to the girl next to me that he was the only one that did try to do something and because I was there it may have put him off from more conversation. She also asked how was it that I dared to come up to talk to them and such while others were staying away. Deep inside me I know about such things but I just told her that she can read about it on this blog.
It's amazing to me when I see other guys try their luck with girls. There seems to still be that unsure, non confident, shy, boy like and sometimes cowardly approach to women. Yes! The fact that women today are more informed, better educate and know what they want, should not leave guys to despair that she may look at you differently or worse of all reject your approach. Being shot down by a woman is not the end of the world. One may actually like you but if you don't try, ask or approach then how will you know?
Eventually I left after getting her email address. Hopefully those other guys did catch a break after I went. I didn't stick around to find out.
Bar advice. Many methods can be used to approach girls. First dig deep inside you to see if you're ready for the next step after you got her attention. Ask yourself,"Now what?"
Intimate Loving (DVD)
THE KEY TO WOMEN'S SECRET WISHES!
Women reveal what they secretly find attractive in a man and what they really want. Attractive real life couples show how to fulfill a woman's most intimate desires. Discover new lessons in romance through proven techniques. Elicit deeper emotions by better understanding her physical needs. Explore role playing and fantasies. Learn how to express your passion and be a great lover. Keep her satisfied forever!
-What's really attractive in a man
-Techniques that work every time
-Eliciting deeper emotions
-Expressing passion
-Being adventurous in love
DVD Special Features:
- Multilingual: English, Spanish and French dialog
- Subtitles for the hearing impaired
- Tips from Dr. Patti Britton
- On-screen sex encyclopedia
- Full length bonus scenes
- Links to important sites
Bar advice. If you're the sort that need more visual directions then get this. It may help.
Getting to commitment
A very worthwhile read for anyone in any type of relationship. Book covers topics to make you more aware of the motivations for your own behavior and reactions to other people. Good for men and women, people who don't think they have relating problems and for those who know they do. It is worth your time.
Bar advice. Where do you stand in the face of commitment? Is the relationship going anywhere?
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Will Sex add to commitment?
You may imagine that agreeing to have sex before you have a monogamous commitment from a man could lead to the commitment you seek. Wrong. If he gets to have sex with you before commitment, you lose some of your power to get him to commit. After all, why should he commit further if he’s already having sex with you?
Yes, you may answer, but with sexual intimacy he’ll fall for me even more. Wrong again. With sexual intimacy before commitment, all you know is that his cock is in love with your vagina. You are beautiful, feminine, and have a gorgeous, fully shaved vagina. Of course, he’s in love with your sexual organs! What man wouldn’t be? But you want his love for you to come before his love for your sexual organs.
By the way, “instant commitments” don’t count. If you’ve teased him to the point of nakedness or of being only an undergarment away from nakedness, and then ask him, “You do love me, don’t you?” do not be fooled by the answer “Of course I do.” That is his manhood talking. At this point his brain has been kidnapped by his throbbing manhood. All his brain blood now resides in his swollen enlarged one, and his is totally not in charge of what his mouth says. “Of course I love you” means “Of course I love your body.” If you let a "Good Man" have sex with you before commitment, you risk losing that "Good Man" because you were too easy; you weren’t selective or demanding enough.
Be patient. Get the commitment first. You need to have sex only with a committed "Good Man".
It may take you several weeks or several months of dating a man to determine whether you want to have sex with him. This is not an unreasonable time frame for such an important decision. Again, it is totally appropriate to share your thoughts with a man regarding your qualifications of a "Good Man" and your fundamental needs. Also discuss how he sees your relationship, both now and in the future. If you decide that sex with this man is appropriate for you, then mutually commit to monogamy and go for it. If he is unwilling to commit to monogamy, do not agree to have sex with him.
One last thing to add. Women also want to have great sex. Most men don't know this so if you like the guy that much and you want to enjoy time with that guy sexually then go for it. Just remember that if there is no commitment from it later then you know it was your fault. So if that's what you decide then you won't feel let down later.
Bar advice. ladies take some time if you feel that he's the Mr. Right. Guys be patient with her because she deserves respect.
Yes, you may answer, but with sexual intimacy he’ll fall for me even more. Wrong again. With sexual intimacy before commitment, all you know is that his cock is in love with your vagina. You are beautiful, feminine, and have a gorgeous, fully shaved vagina. Of course, he’s in love with your sexual organs! What man wouldn’t be? But you want his love for you to come before his love for your sexual organs.
By the way, “instant commitments” don’t count. If you’ve teased him to the point of nakedness or of being only an undergarment away from nakedness, and then ask him, “You do love me, don’t you?” do not be fooled by the answer “Of course I do.” That is his manhood talking. At this point his brain has been kidnapped by his throbbing manhood. All his brain blood now resides in his swollen enlarged one, and his is totally not in charge of what his mouth says. “Of course I love you” means “Of course I love your body.” If you let a "Good Man" have sex with you before commitment, you risk losing that "Good Man" because you were too easy; you weren’t selective or demanding enough.
Be patient. Get the commitment first. You need to have sex only with a committed "Good Man".
It may take you several weeks or several months of dating a man to determine whether you want to have sex with him. This is not an unreasonable time frame for such an important decision. Again, it is totally appropriate to share your thoughts with a man regarding your qualifications of a "Good Man" and your fundamental needs. Also discuss how he sees your relationship, both now and in the future. If you decide that sex with this man is appropriate for you, then mutually commit to monogamy and go for it. If he is unwilling to commit to monogamy, do not agree to have sex with him.
One last thing to add. Women also want to have great sex. Most men don't know this so if you like the guy that much and you want to enjoy time with that guy sexually then go for it. Just remember that if there is no commitment from it later then you know it was your fault. So if that's what you decide then you won't feel let down later.
Bar advice. ladies take some time if you feel that he's the Mr. Right. Guys be patient with her because she deserves respect.
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