Here is a secret for guys to learn. Exteroceptors are the skin's sensory nerves that sense touch. Women have millions of exterceptors in their skin, and most are concentrated around her lips, hands, and the erogenous zones.
By stimulating a woman's erogenous zones, you're not only telling her subconsciously that you're an incredible, experienced lover, but you awaken her sexual drive and lust. The Hands of Fire ritual is so intimate, you want to make sure that she feels completely comfortable and relaxed first.
Have her sit down on the floor or bed, cross-legged facing you. Start the session off first with voice stimulation. The voice connects all of the sessions together and makes her feel comfortable. Next, do a breathing ritual with her to make her completely relaxed, and finally get her comfortable with your touch. Now tell her you're going to show her something new, and ask her if she feels completely comfortable with you and trusts you 100%.Have her say "yes" and "yes".
Tell her, "Did you know that you have special 'hot spots' all over your body? Well I'm going to show you where they are and how to awaken them." Once again reinforce it by making her say "yes".
As you do this ritual, imagine that hot, white light and fire is burning from your fingertips, warming whatever they touch. Your fire hands will actually become warmer to the touch this way and she'll feel it. If you think this won't work then it won't. The human mind can make things feel and sense differently with the power of suggestion.
Touch her slowly, softly, and gently. Linger. Enjoy each moment for the sake of the moment. Focus on enjoying the process, not on the completion. Take your time with the lady. Have patience. Don't make it like a hooker having a quickie.
Caress #1: THE WRISTS
Tell her that her first hot spot is her wrists. Proceed to lightly caress them for they are full of exteroceptors.
Caress #2: THE INSIDES OF HER ELBOWS
The "insides" of her elbows, where you feel the soft connective tissue, is extremely sensitive to touch and a prime erogenous zone yet most men don't know about it. This is the next area to lightly caress. Pace the situation and tell her in a slow, sexy voice exactly what you are touching and why.
Caress #3: THE LOWER BACK
Reach around to her lower back. Caressing her lower back increases the amount of blood flow to the pelvis and accelerates her arousal. Again, with each of the caressing touches, tell her what you are touching and how it is another hot spot.
Caress #4: BACK OF NECK
Gently stroke the back of her neck. The back of her neck carries a lot of muscle tension that touching releases.
Caress #5: THE JAWBONE
The front of the neck and the ridge of the jawbone is an extremely sensitive part of the woman. Lightly trace along her jawbone and the front of her neck with your fingers.
Caress #6: THE EYES
Caress the area around her eyes. As you touch them, keep your eyes open and gaze steadily into hers, even if she drops her eyelids. Keep eye contact to maintain a sense of connection with her and in some cases it makes her feel a huge amount of sexual energy.
Caress #7: THE NOSE & LIPS
Lightly caress her nose with your fingertip. Gradually extend the caresses down to her lips, and then back up to her nose.
Caress #8: THE CHEEKS
Begin from beneath the eye and lightly stroke down her cheek. Gently with the palms as well.
Caress #9: THE ANKLE HOLLOW
Caress the hollows on both sides of her left or right foot, located between her Achilles tendon and the anklebone. By now moving away from her most highly erogenous areas, you heighten the sexual urgency that she has.
The 9 power touches actually touch a woman in ways that most men never bother to explore. No man will ever have taken the time to touch her like that before in her life.
You can end the day's session with more voice suggestion or a massage, but if
she wants to man-eat you alive by now, begin a hot, passionate lovemaking session. Otherwise, don't push or initiate anything more and let her sit there and burn with the new, smashing sexual feelings. She's not going to forget you anytime soon.
And you don't need to have the entire ritual perfectly memorized. Add a few hot spots or improvise as you go. It doesn't really matter what parts you're touching as long as you're touching. You may also want to keep a small note card by your side listing all the erogenous zones so that you don't forget them. Remember when she moaned at certain touches.
Self-hypnosis is an extremely quick and effective way to practice ahead of time as well. As you read the different strokes involved, imagine a scene in your head where you're performing them on a woman. Notice how your hands get hot, how she moves at your touch, how she becomes aroused and how she sighs with pleasure. Keep practicing the scene until you've experienced it so many times that it seems like second nature to you.
Bar advice. Remember, your woman must know that you believe that every part of a woman's body is sensual. Every part of a woman's body is responsive. Everything is natural and normal.